Discernment

Discernment is a word that is not given nearly enough attention. We take things for granted, and accept so many things on face value because “that’s just the way things are done”, or this or that so called “authority” figure says it is so.

This word has some spiritual associations in terms of determining what is our overall purpose in life, and surrendering our will to a Higher Power. That is definitely part of this, but there is so much more. Each moment is an opportunity to determine what is or isn’t true.

A Practical Approach

Beyond religion and morality, this ability enables us on a daily basis to make wise choices for ourselves and our families. This is invaluable as our children reach their teen years. Looking beyond the obvious, spending time to gather all the data, and proving any statement or advice given to us is what a discerning person does.

Here is a fun website that is all about learning to make informed decisions about every aspect of our lives on a daily basis. A lot of what we learn and are told have missing elements, or are outright exaggerations or misrepresentations.

Inner Guidance

This is all about learning to access and trust our inner guidance in order to make sound decisions, and evaluate the information to which we are exposed. For example, should we notice some sign of abuse at home, school or in the community, it is critical that we discover the truth, and address the situation appropriately.

Instead of reacting to life, we learn to respond proactively based on an inner knowingness. Once we truly learn to trust ourselves, we will no longer be fooled by all the illusions and false promises that come our way. Click here for the Transforming Child Behavior Home Page.

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SBI!